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Case Scenario 1
Step Up: Get Fear Out of Your Way
Fear is normal and healthy. It can drive you to achieve higher accomplishments. But if you allow it, it can sabotage all efforts. There are many fears that get in our way. Some commonly shared fears of leaders are fear of failure, rejection, being too good, and being recognized as not being good enough. Fear will cause you to procrastinate and blame it on something else. It can even cause you to make a life altering decision that is not exactly what you want. It can lead to not going after that position you always dreamed of or cause you to feel like something is missing in your life. It can cause boredom and hurt relationships. This list can go on but I'm sure you get the picture. I ask you "is it worth it?"
The bottom line is a fear is just a fear. It literally has no value other than an emotion that gets in your way. But getting rid of it can be tough. Some ways to rid yourself of fears:
* Change your perspective
* Do things that build your confidence
* Be around people that make you feel strong and supported
* Build your skills
* Seek mentorship
* Get a coach
Jim chose to get a coach to help destroy his fear. He was bored with his current role and knew his only option was to leave or apply for a senior management role. It was time to step up.
No one knew Jim struggled with fear. He was uncomfortable around people and his fear held him back. He did not build the quality relationships he needed to succeed. As Jim moved into management positions he was uncomfortable confronting difficult people so he avoided it. He also ignored the opportunities to apply for the promotions he really wanted.
One day Jim had enough. He decided it was time for a change. He started working with a coach. Not only did he quickly break through the barriers that held him back but he also made huge changes in his life. He no longer held back from confronting difficult situations and people. He had nothing in his way. Jim was unstoppable! With persistence Jim turned his whole life around. He learned new skills AND felt more and more comfortable applying them. At first it was difficult but he practiced until they became habit.
The results were far greater than he ever imagined. He built stronger relationships with his manager and team. Morale improved in the office. His wife even noticed positive changes! And to his surprise he got more than one promotion and has never felt happier at work. Jim feels that getting rid of his fears improved aspects of his life that he did not realize were even affected by his fears.